KQED News Mind/Shift – Deborah Farmer Kris
Rather than filling up children’s time with activities we believe they should do, she suggests parents become observers. What activities seem to ignite their child’s imagination or give them an extra spark of joy? What seems to increase their confidence, reduce their stress, or help them enjoy their own company? “Find out what helps your child be the best version of themselves,” said Borba, and then give them the freedom to pursue those activities. This often requires shelving our own expectations about what they “should” be doing.